[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.zotify.cz\/moje-dite-je-nej\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.zotify.cz\/moje-dite-je-nej\/","headline":"Moje d\u00edt\u011b je nej\u2026!","name":"Moje d\u00edt\u011b je nej\u2026!","description":"Je samoz\u0159ejmost\u00ed, \u017ee snad ka\u017ed\u00e1 m\u00e1ma chce, aby jej\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b bylo to nejlep\u0161\u00ed, a sna\u017e\u00ed se pro to ud\u011blat.","datePublished":"2025-03-03","dateModified":"2025-03-03","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.zotify.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.zotify.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/dcb1aeb5e7d95014cdc92e76cf3c72f6b456579bf773ad0081803a6569ffc19c?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/dcb1aeb5e7d95014cdc92e76cf3c72f6b456579bf773ad0081803a6569ffc19c?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"zotify.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.zotify.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a298726_w1946_t1508994865.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.zotify.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a298726_w1946_t1508994865.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.zotify.cz\/moje-dite-je-nej\/","wordCount":561,"articleBody":"Je samoz\u0159ejmost\u00ed, \u017ee snad ka\u017ed\u00e1 m\u00e1ma chce, aby jej\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b bylo to nejlep\u0161\u00ed, a sna\u017e\u00ed se pro to ud\u011blat maximum. Mnohdy d\u011bti chv\u00e1l\u00ed za v\u00fdkon, kter\u00fd by si to ani nezaslou\u017eil. Mnohdy tak\u00e9 chv\u00e1l\u00ed p\u0159\u00edli\u0161. Je to ale spr\u00e1vn\u00e9? Na jednu stranu d\u00edt\u011bti p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 zved\u00e1te sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, co\u017e v\u00a0jeho budouc\u00edm \u017eivot\u011b m\u016f\u017ee znamenat, \u017ee se bude povy\u0161ovat nap\u0159\u00edklad nad sv\u00fdmi spolu\u017e\u00e1ky ve \u0161kole. Na druhou stranu, pokud d\u00edt\u011bti l\u017eete a chv\u00e1l\u00edte jej i za to, co nen\u00ed p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 dobr\u00e9, jednou bude moc zklaman\u00e9, a\u017e se dozv\u00ed pravdu.U\u017e od \u00fatl\u00e9ho v\u011bku bychom m\u011bli d\u011bti chv\u00e1lit, pokud si to opravdu zaslou\u017e\u00ed, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 je mus\u00edme um\u011bt i zkritizovat.Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b se to odv\u00edj\u00ed podle v\u011bku:\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Pokud d\u00edt\u011b ve dvou letech chytne poprv\u00e9 tu\u017eku a na\u010dm\u00e1r\u00e1 \u010d\u00e1ru, ur\u010dit\u011b budeme nad\u0161en\u00ed.\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Pokud ale sedmilet\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, kter\u00e9 by u\u017e m\u011blo nakreslit i hezk\u00fd obr\u00e1zek, namaluje tu samou \u010d\u00e1ru a vy jej budete chv\u00e1lit, jak to m\u00e1 kr\u00e1sn\u00e9, u\u017e mu p\u0159ece l\u017eete a d\u00e1v\u00e1te fale\u0161nou nad\u011bji, \u017ee um\u00ed n\u00e1dhern\u011b malovat. Nebylo by lep\u0161\u00ed, kdybyste mu p\u0159\u00edmo \u0159ekli, \u017ee nev\u00edte, co t\u00edm obr\u00e1zkem cht\u011blo vyj\u00e1d\u0159it a uk\u00e1zali mu, jak to p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b m\u016f\u017ee ud\u011blat l\u00e9pe?D\u011bti jsou velice u\u010denliv\u00e9 a z\u00a0Va\u0161\u00ed strany je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je spr\u00e1vn\u011b motivovat k\u00a0lep\u0161\u00edmu v\u00fdkonu.Mal\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b samo nepozn\u00e1, zda ur\u010ditou \u010dinnost ud\u011blalo spr\u00e1vn\u011b nebo ne. A net\u00fdk\u00e1 se to pouze kreslen\u00ed, t\u00fdk\u00e1 se to v\u0161ech v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 se d\u00edt\u011b u\u010d\u00ed vykon\u00e1vat.Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b nen\u00ed ani vhodn\u00e9 bezcitn\u011b kritizovat, proto\u017ee t\u00edm byste ho mohli od dan\u00e9 \u010dinnosti odradit \u00fapln\u011b. I u star\u0161\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 s\u00a0nimi up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b komunikovat o tom, co je bav\u00ed, a zda na to maj\u00ed talent. V\u0161ichni chceme, aby na\u0161e d\u011bti byly v\u00a0n\u011b\u010dem dobr\u00e9, chceme je podporovat, aby d\u011blaly to, co je bav\u00ed, a aby byly neust\u00e1le lep\u0161\u00ed a lep\u0161\u00ed. Ale pokud chce na\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b zp\u00edvat a my jasn\u011b sly\u0161\u00edme, \u017ee m\u00e1 naprost\u00fd hudebn\u00ed hluch, nebo pokud chce n\u00e1\u0161 syn hr\u00e1t fotbal a my vid\u00edme, \u017ee se i po n\u011bkolika tr\u00e9ninc\u00edch prost\u011b netref\u00ed do bal\u00f3nu, m\u011bli bychom mu to jemn\u011b a \u0161etrn\u011b vysv\u011btlit a hledat s\u00a0n\u00edm jin\u00fd kon\u00ed\u010dek, kter\u00fd by pro n\u011bj mohl b\u00fdt vhodn\u00fd, a na kter\u00fd by mohl m\u00edt opravdov\u00fd talent.Je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 se d\u011btem v\u011bnovat a zaj\u00edmat se o jejich kon\u00ed\u010dky, v\u00e9st je k\u00a0n\u011bjak\u00e9 smyslupln\u00e9 \u010dinnosti. Velice d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 je komunikace, kter\u00e1 by m\u011bla b\u00fdt p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm pravdiv\u00e1. Do budoucna tak na\u0161im d\u011btem u\u0161et\u0159\u00edme n\u011bkdy i p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 velk\u00e9 zklam\u00e1n\u00ed ze zji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed pravdy, \u017ee to, o co se sna\u017eily, nebylo tak dobr\u00e9, jak jste jim v\u00a0pr\u016fb\u011bhu cel\u00e9ho d\u011btstv\u00ed nalh\u00e1vali.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                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